Just to say I've deleted my deadjournal. This is not meant to be in a spirit of rancour, but just because I've realised I can't use it the way I want to; it just winds people up. I tried to do a blanket vent yesterday to make myself feel better but it just pissed people off and they started arguing with me, quite understandably - but it rather defeated the point. I didn't want to disable comments, but what I really needed was a button that said "Allow comments that agree with you only," which of course is impossible. :o)
No hard feelings, I hope. Certainly none from my side.